If you’re in a relationship and want to get more attention from your boyfriend, why not make him miss you like crazy? After a fight, the best way to make him crave your attention is by avoiding him entirely.
If you love your boyfriend and value his presence, then you want him to feel the same for you, right? When you two aren’t together, you want him to miss you just as much as you miss him. But if that doesn’t happen naturally, how can you make it happen? What you need are some tips and tricks on how to make a guy miss you. Boys can be complicated and getting them to admit their feelings or say they miss you can be extremely difficult. However, if you implement these tips, he’ll be begging to see you again in no time.
SHOW HIM YOUR GOOD TIMES
It’s all too easy to make boyfriends jealous. All it takes is you going out and having a great time with your friends and he’ll be wishing you were with him instead! Research has proven that men miss their girlfriends the most when they’re out having a blast without them. Whether they trust your friends or not is irrelevant. They would still rather you were at home spending time with them. Relationship experts have agreed that spending some time away from your boyfriend and with your friends instead will make him miss you like crazy. The more your boyfriend misses you, the stronger your relationship will be!
SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HIM
Your boyfriend will only miss you if he has spent enough time with you that he truly feels your absence. If you don’t spend much quality time with your boyfriend, then what is he going to miss? So the first step to making sure he misses you when you’re gone is spending a significant amount of quality time with him. Go on adventures, have deep talks and flirt with him like crazy. The more time you two spend together, the stronger your relationship will become. He will become completely infatuated with your presence! Then when you aren’t there, he will feel lonely, sad and desperate to see you again.
BE UNAVAILABLE SOMETIMES
This trick is guaranteed to make him miss you intensely. Think about it- if someone could get ahold of you whenever they wanted to, what would they have to miss? They could drive to your house anytime, pick up the phone and hear your voice and even video chat you! But what if all o that was taken away- at least briefly? The next time he calls or texts, don’t answer. Then wait at least an hour to reply. When you reply, let him know that you were busy and unavailable. During that short hour, he will have lost his mind wondering what you were doing and who you were with. However, be sure not to excessively ignore him or he will get frustrated. Ignore him maybe once every couple weeks- just to get him really missing you.
This trick is especially effective given the fact that men hate clingy girlfriends. If you’re the opposite of clingy, what will he have to complain about? If he’s always saying how much he wants his own space and needs alone time, then give it to him. He’ll quickly realize that he’d rather have you around because he’ll miss you so much! This brief period where you’re unavailable can also benefit you because it will give you time to spend with friends and prove to your boyfriend that you can live an exciting, fulfilling life without him. When you have other priorities besides him, he’ll appreciate the time that you two get to spend together even more.
SEND HIM A GOODNIGHT TEXT
If you don’t live with your boyfriend, then he likely already misses you at night. A cute way to make him miss you would be to send him a flirty text right before bed. Some couples find that flirtatious or naughty text messages keep their relationship passionate and make them miss each other even more when they’re not together. If your boyfriend is comfortable with these messages, use that to make him miss you. Research has shown that you are likely to dream about whoever you speak to or see last at night. The more he dreams about you, the more he’ll wish you were there with him!
GET HIM A KEEPSAKE
By getting him a gift that reminds him of you, he won’t be able to stop thinking about you even if he wanted to! This sneaky tactic is one of the best ways to make sure that he misses you. You can give him any gift from a shirt to a stuffed animal; the fact that it’s from you will be enough to make him think about you constantly. However, the best gift to get him would be a framed picture of the two of you. Gifts and keepsakes play an important role in helping a relationship to stay fun and strong.
GIVE HIM SOMETHING OF YOURS
If you really want him to miss you, leave some of your things at his house. You could leave behind a bracelet, jacket or little toy. Like with a gift, whenever he looks at what you left, your face will pop into his mind. If he wasn’t missing you already, he definitely would be after that! This tip is best to use if you live far away from your boyfriend or want him to miss you while you are away on a trip.
LEAVE HIM A LOVE NOTE
Never underestimate the power of love notes! If you go away for a while and leave your boyfriend a surprise love note in his room, there’s no way he won’t miss you! Tuck the note into his wallet or under his pillow- somewhere where he’ll notice it easily. When he reads the note, his heart will be filled with love because of his strong feelings for you, but also sadness because he’ll be missing you so much. Small things like notes are even more meaningful than some big, grand gesture.
When it comes to making your boyfriend miss you, it isn’t as hard as you might think! While boys don’t express their emotions as much, we guarantee you that he’ll be missing you if you follow these tips and tricks. You don’t need to spend loads of money or be very creative to make your boyfriend miss you. Something as simple as writing him a little love note on a paper napkin can remind him of how much he loves you.
Hopefully this step-by-step guide to making your boyfriend miss you has made you feel more confident that you can make him miss you! All it takes is some patience, dedication and love and you’ll be able to make him miss you like crazy!
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